Entries by Shelley

How To Get Over Your Ex

As a relationship coach I help singles who are at different stages of their journey.  Many of my clients come to me at the end of a relationship, when they are stuck in the desperate “why has this happened to me?” cycle.  They need to get over an Ex. Getting over someone is never easy.  […]

The 5 Foundation Rules for Success In Love

I am so grateful to have been mentored by my Aunt, Yvonne Doucha, who has spent over 60  years on a quest to find a spiritual path that resonates with her.  Along the way I have benefited so much from the many lessons and teachings of the great Masters that she has shared with me, […]


Planting Trees and Creating Dreams

I am back in Cornwall writing my book, so grateful for some sunshine today. Somehow the words flow so easily with patches of blue sky above. I would like to share with you a Chinese wisdom, because at the end of the day it’s about taking action to create what we want, a better relationship, […]


Are you involved in a Secret Relationship that is meeting one or more of your Six Human Needs? Does it give you Certainty?  Does it give you Variety?  Do you feel Significant?  Does it meet your need for Love and Connection?  Are you Growing and Contributing because of this relationship? We will very often compromise […]

Are you in an Imaginary Relationship?

Five months ago, my lovely client who for the sake of this blog I shall call Julie, got involved with a man she met on the internet. Within a week she was experiencing the most passionate, consuming, fun relationship in years.  He was telling her how beautiful she was, how much she had changed his […]


It is really frustrating when two lovely people get together and it all goes wrong. I can’t be with you while it all unfolds, coaching you on what to say and what not to say or do. When a first date goes wrong, it is generally due to a simple mistake or oversight. Remember you […]